Hide and Seek

Did you know that in addition to making your child laugh, the game of hide and seek also makes him grow up? Thanks to this game, he gains confidence in himself, he exercises his memory and concentration. Later, the hiding games also teach him to count, to wait his turn and to follow rules. Playing at the hiding place also allows you to practice certain motor skills.

Ideas for playing at the hiding place

0 to 3 years

Cuckoo is the first hiding game your child learns. You can give cuddles to your baby from a very young age to amuse him, but it is from 8 months that this game helps him understand that people and objects still exist even when he does not see them. .

Hide your face behind your hands or behind a cushion and reappear saying, ”  Hi! Your child will realize that the objects (here, your face) do not disappear magically and forever. He will gradually learn that you are still there, even if he does not see you for a few moments.

Reverse roles by hiding and discovering your baby’s face with a blanket. After a few rehearsals, leave the blanket in place longer and ask your toddler: “But where are you hiding? Your child will have fun removing it to show his face.

The notion of permanence of the object is generally well understood around 18 months. You will notice that your child has better support for separations. It reassures him to know that you do not disappear forever when you are not there.

Hide an object under a blanket and have it reappear. Your baby will gradually realize that the object still exists even when he does not see it.

The more he grows up, the more your child enjoys hiding and being found. Invite him to go hide in the house and go looking for him. Playing at the hiding place allows your toddler to explore his environment, even though he often hides in one place. It also develops his motor skills  : he runs, he kneels, he tries not to move, and so on. It also practices its balance and coordination. If he does not see you, he thinks you do not see him either, even if his back protrudes a little from the chair behind which he is hidden.

Let your child follow you when you go to hide. He will try to emulate the positions you take not to be seen.

3 years to 5 years

Your child understands more about the rules of the game. He also learns to respect the fact that it is everyone’s turn to hide and seek.

Ask him to count or sing a song while others are hiding.

If your child does not understand certain rules, it is necessary to simplify the game so that the pleasure stays with the rendezvous.

Encourage him to find good hiding places. As he is now more aware of his size, your toddler is thinking about finding a good place to hide. He does not hesitate to sit on his heels or do acrobatics to slip behind a piece of furniture, which develops his motor skills.

Do not take too long to find it. He is not yet very patient and he will leave his hiding place quickly if you look for him too long.

Finding the missing object

Playing hide and seek with objects can also boost your child’s concentration and appeal to his memory. Place objects (toys, clothes, etc.) in front of your toddler and ask them to observe them. After a few minutes, ask him to close his eyes and hide an object. Your child will have to name the missing object.